Excuses
Okay I feel guilty not letting the kids play on the back patio. I have a list of reasons and most are pretty selfish.
1. I gave them a shower this morning and I don't want to have to give them a bath tonight.
2. The patio is pretty dirty. It needs to be swept, organized, and cleaned of spiderwebs. (Okay it really isn't that bad but I want it cleaned because of 1. excuse.)
3. It is hot outside, too hot to be barefoot which means too hot to play.
4. I don't want the side door kept open because of the bugs and dirt that come in. Especially since the floor is clean.
5. I would have to sit outside and watch them and I have a long list of things to do.
Like I said most of these are just excuses because I feel it would be more work for me to let them play outside. Tomorrow they'll go to the park and play, but Monday I like to focus on the house. They have only watched one movie (only once) so they're not in a tv trance. I had Brandon bring out a bucket of cars, trucks, buses, ect... last night that they haven't played with for a while. You know the rotating of toys. I still feel bad since I know how much I loved playing outside as a kid. What to do?
1. I gave them a shower this morning and I don't want to have to give them a bath tonight.
2. The patio is pretty dirty. It needs to be swept, organized, and cleaned of spiderwebs. (Okay it really isn't that bad but I want it cleaned because of 1. excuse.)
3. It is hot outside, too hot to be barefoot which means too hot to play.
4. I don't want the side door kept open because of the bugs and dirt that come in. Especially since the floor is clean.
5. I would have to sit outside and watch them and I have a long list of things to do.
Like I said most of these are just excuses because I feel it would be more work for me to let them play outside. Tomorrow they'll go to the park and play, but Monday I like to focus on the house. They have only watched one movie (only once) so they're not in a tv trance. I had Brandon bring out a bucket of cars, trucks, buses, ect... last night that they haven't played with for a while. You know the rotating of toys. I still feel bad since I know how much I loved playing outside as a kid. What to do?
6 Comments:
At July 8, 2008 at 5:36 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Minimize cleaning, maximize playing with the kids. I wish I had. Makes good for the moment feelings and great emotional memories for the future knowing their mommy played alot with them............mom
At July 8, 2008 at 2:36 PM ,
Anonymous said...
I think you're right. I should focus more on them instead of the chores. I just get tense with a messy house and feel more relaxed when it's cleaned. But I'm also tense while I'm trying to clean and trying to keep it that way. I should just play with them and worry about the small stuff later. We might all be happier.
At July 8, 2008 at 10:10 PM ,
Anonymous said...
I discovered that cleaning became a hobby for me in recent months and it really hasn't been good for me or my marriage. I don't think it's good to get into the habit of saying "we can spend time together if this or that is clean". It's a hard balance, but I'm going to try taking Mom's advice too. Especially now that I have Georgie.
At July 9, 2008 at 9:35 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Clean the deck while they play on it! They can help you and you will feel good about gettng something done and your kids will be getting fresh air too!
At July 11, 2008 at 12:40 PM ,
Anonymous said...
Brandon cleaned the patio today for the party. But there's supposed to be a thunderstrom this weekend. Now the kids can play out back with no worries. Thanks for all the helpful tips.
At July 14, 2008 at 12:12 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Uhhh... put the kids on a blanket in the middle of the house and if they let their toys get off the blanket they get spanked! That's just common sense, right?
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